Thought I could consider her my Best Friend. We were both so much a like. But once she got a boyfriend ((and she sworn she wouldn't do this)) she blew me off. He lives almost an hour away. And she moved in with him. He gave her a key to his apt after 2 days of dating. He's 27 and she Just turned 19 a month ago. After her moving into his place ((it's not offical but she's ALWAYS over there for weeks and most of her stuff is over there.)) She got me a job at her work. She than later got fired. I never see her anymore, never talk to her, nothing. Only time I see her is when she wants to take money from work.

She'd just show up. One day chad came with her. and she went to the front of the store, and Tryign to be really quite about it. She took money from it. I confronted her about it when she came in the back. I asked her how much she took and she's just denying it. So I just kept confronting her about. Cause I KNOW she took some.

After that didn't hear from her till a couple of days after that. When she wanted more money. I'm ALWAYS there for her, I'm still having a hard time tryign to deal with my Grandpas passing. and so one day I just didn't feel like talking to anyone. So I turned my phone off. She sends me a message online asking me to turn it back on because she needed to talk to me. She wanted to vent to me. Never ONCE asked me why I have my phone off nothing.

I than start confronting her about ignoring me, and just using me. She says that a lie. and she said she'll answer her phone. all this stuff. but on Thursday she sends me a text asking me what tiem I worked at. and that she needs to stop by and take some money for her meds because she felt like she was "Dying" ((She had a root canal a week and a half ago)) I didn't respond for oen I was sleeping. and two i'm not suppose to text on my phone. and than she calls me once I didn't respond. and wakes me up. she asked me what tiem I rowked a and I told her. and she's like I'm gonna stop by for money than. I told her no I work with someone else. and she starts getting grumpy with me sayign "well you told me that you worked by yourself" I told her "NO! I told you I work with Rose!" and she's just like oh well.. I need money. I said back to her Good for you what do you want me to do about it?!

They both are out of work now. He still works a security job, she doesn't do anything. the Security job he makes like 8.50 an hour. so he does get some money. BUT they are TRYING to have a baby! after 4 or 5 months of dating. and he even told her that he wants to get married within a year of dating. I told her that they should wait till they both of a job to support the baby if they want a baby that badly. because right now it would NOT be good. They are goign way to fast and it's not going to last.

But recently I sent her a message voer the internet ((she can get messages sent to her phone from IMs)) and I was like "sooo......" just seeing if she'd respond cause I called her that day and she would answer. and of course I didn't get a respond back to that. Later that night around Midnight I sent another sayign Thanks. and she starts yelling at me. because it's so late. But than I was liek Whatever, call me when your not so busy.

And I havent herd from her since. and that was on Friday.

I'm so upset. This ALWAYS happens to me when my friends get boyfriends. I Never once done that to a friend. But yet they seem to ALWAYS get me for it.

And than an ex wants to go back otu with me, but I'm feeling like this year is going to be nothing but loosing a bunch of people, and possibly pets. This month is the most depressing month for me. My Great Grandma died on the 8th ((tomorrow)) it will be a year that she died. and than Missey died on the 25th that will be 3 years that she has been dead. my first dog I've ever had died this month, Bugs the first rabbit i've ever had died this month also. and this month would have marked a year since I've had Cammie.

I'm just feeling like pants sooo badly. Can't wait for next year. Hopefully it will be sooo much better than this year. all teh crappy years i've had.

Sorry to hear of your bad luck.

So this friend is stealing money from your place of employement? I know she's your friend but from the sounds of it she is drifting away. By you knowing that she's stealing money puts your job as risk so maybe you should be the bad guy and tell your boss. She is committing a felony and should get an eye wakening that money is NOT handed to her and stealing is not the way to go either!

Yeah, I'm no longer telling her when I work. She supposely got a job yesterday. But if I tell my boss he will Fire me for sure. So it's a lose lose thing. I can't win, Unless I'm able to find a new job. It sucks. I really hate my job. Wish I could find a new one.