My friend is about to be kicked out!!

She's using her Pregnancy as an Excuses to get out of everything! and she said to begin with that she wouldn't. But she is!!

she's like "I don't want to get a job now.. I'm always so tired!" She's like 4 or 5 months!!
My Aunt is due Next month and she works TWO jobs.. Two Busy jobs!!
a waitress, and a Nurse at a hosp! She's always on her feet.

she doesn't even do anything around the house. Just sits in her room all day long, and does nothing!

NOBODY thinks she is going to be a good mom, because she's not doing anything to prove it. Freddy has told her that he would pay for ALL of the baby's stuff.. and he hasn't! and she's believes him that he will.. When he's stood her up so many times, will ignore her phone calls.

she's just driving me insane, right now. When i do the dishes to help my mom out, She doesn't even bother to offer to help.

and she is SO rude to everyone! she's so mean to Josh, to my family. and I'm nice to everyone for her.. Although Lately I've been mean to Freddy.. Hey he yelled at me for feeding my fish....

I swear though, If she goes to easter with me and my family, and my Grandparents are telling her to get a job or anything and she's rude to them, Not only will my Grandma yell at her, So Will I. That's really rude.

I'll have to bring it up to her again this week.. to go out looking for jobs.
Because theres stuff she can pay for, Like her maturity clothes. We think she is expecting my mom to pay for it, because she hasn't gotten any yet. and she's having a hard time fitting into her pants.

But I just had to get this out.. I'm just going insane with her not doing anything!
and always hitting on my brother!

I think she will have a hard time finding a job if she's 4-5 months pregnant.

Employers are going to look at her as probably not having alot of energy, not being able to stand for long periods of time, having a difficult time bending over as she gets bigger....plus the fact that she won't be working at all in a few months when she has the baby....why would they want to take the time to train her?

Every woman is different when she's pregnant....don't compare her to your aunt, your friend might truly being having a difficult time. Although there's no excuse for rudeness, or laziness...she's probably always been that way, the pregnancy is just making it worse.

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She isn't even that big.

She hasn't even tried.

A LOT of the pregnant people I know are still working, Full time jobs. or getting more jobs.

Having a job and still working when pregnant is totally different then finding a job while pregnant.

I understand where you're coming from Manda, she should be helping out, even with small things. Or even offering to help. Maybe it would be tough finding a job but she should be helping..

She should do something but I agree that some people have really hard pregnancies!

My son was HORRIBLE on me. I threw up for 7 of the 9 months and just generally felt bad most days - he was laying on a major artery and it caused blood pressure problems, the hormones were awful!

no.. She doesn't even act like shes pregnant.. She never got morning sickness or anything like that.

I'm saying people we both know are finding jobs and they are showing A LOT more than her.

She hasn't even TRIED.

It makes me so angry, All she does is sits, and does NOTHING allllll day long. and wakes up at NOON. also she expects my parents to buy her stuff.. yeah that's not gonna happen.

once she gets a computer in her room, she'll never come out again.

My parents are only letting her use one because She's always in their room on their computer, When my dad has work to do. or they are gonna get ready to go to bed.

She's just nothing but a bump on the log, does nothing. uses her pregnancy as an excuses not to day anything..

Going for walks with her is so hard, because she complains the whole way, and she knows i take walking and exercising seriously, and no matter who is with me, i push them to the max, because i don't want to skip or go short on an exercise when They wanted to come with. It's just the way I am, I want to stay in shape so I work out to the max.

I'm just getting so fed up with it. She's so disrespectful It's sick!

theres like two sides of her.. the one I knew from school who was Respectful to everyone, and nice.. and then theres this side of her, where she sits there and does nothing, and is rude to everyone in the house or who comes over.

I'm done with it.. She wants to play those games I will also.. Next time someone beeps in.. "No, I'm on the other line" Next time Freddy comes over.. Even though he called me Fat, and yelled at me for feeding my fish. I'm not nice anymore. :angry: :angry:

My mom told me to be her Drill Sargent.. and That's what I'm gonna do.

How's it all going now?

Harsh! All I'm gonna say... :P

It's alright.... She's leaving for 10 days soon.. YAY! haha
and then Her and Freddy are getting a "place" together in 2 months. Like I believe anything he says.. He's a Guy.. and right now i don't trust them..