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Title: Need Some Advice
Description: otherwise i'll be an emotional wreck


BlueBooster - July 29, 2009 09:12 AM (GMT)
Ive had several times when my family have upset me but this is the last straw!, I know iam 20 and all but my mum and sister think iam sick liking things like naruto and dragon booster even my sister broke my heart when i was working on a dragon booster drawing and had really put effort into it and my sis said I copied it from somewhere said I was sick then ripped up my picture :(
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My sister and parents have got me so close to grief that Iam thinking of threatening to be disowned now they don't realize how much they hurt me
even if I'd try explianing they'd argue how their views where right and that I was in the wrong :(

what do I do plz help me :(?

desperada - July 29, 2009 12:05 PM (GMT)
truthfully i cant offer much advice except stick you what you believe in and hope things settle down enough to where you feel comfortable

Shining-Dragon - July 29, 2009 03:27 PM (GMT)
I go though that as well. i am ridiculed for what i like. it is so frustrating. i have been so upset at times

The Furox - July 30, 2009 07:52 AM (GMT)
This type of thing is very unfortunate and uncomfortable to live through. It's difficult to know what will work to resolve the situation. It might be worth pointing out people like Walt Disney who obviously had a lifelong love of animation and created the largest and most successful family oriented entertainment corporation in the world. Imagine all the Disney created works that never would have happened had Walt's parents and family discouraged him when he was young. And in the current era we have people like John Lasseter of Pixar who's office is filled with toys and is someone who truly loves the animation he creates. And of course there's the fact that these people are/were multi-millionaires because of animation, so what's wrong with an entertainment medium that can make those who truly embrace it incredibly rich? :)

Arthapenn - July 30, 2009 10:17 AM (GMT)
That is sad, BlueBooster. Like Des, I do not have much advice. Sorry. But hang in there.

BlueBooster - July 30, 2009 01:43 PM (GMT)
i got it resolved it not mum who has issues with me liking anime and stuff it only my sis -.- thanks to all who helped me with the supportive words :P ;)

arrow - July 31, 2009 03:01 AM (GMT)
to add to the Walt Disney thing, you know that castle at Disney world? (i think it was the castle) well Walt Disney called it his mountain. he'd sit for days at on a bench, looking at the place he wanted it built. people would pass by and ask him what he was looking at, and he said he was looking at his mountain. they all called him nuts. Disney World (namely the castle) wasn't finished till after he died. on the opening ceremony they were all saying how sad it was that he was there to see it. when it was his wife's turn to speak, she said that no he did see it, they just called him nuts when he said to them that he saw it.

don't worry about your sister. it'll pass over. if i were you, i would poke fun at something she liked, but i do not advise it. it's just mean and won't get you guys no where. it'll just make it worse.

:cookie: a cookie to make you feel better ;)

Arthapenn - August 1, 2009 06:13 AM (GMT)
It seems we are a 'family', helping another 'family member' when he or she is down. We support each other. :)

:cookie: :cookie: :cookie: Two cookies for Aquarius, and one for you. ;) That is to make you feel better.

Cain - August 3, 2009 11:25 PM (GMT)
Sisters can be a pain sometimes, but there are some who can friends. I have sisters too, and two of them were pains. I spent more time with my best friend, asking his family for advice. I was told to be nice, and one of my sisters realized she was wrong to hurt me.
With the other sister, it took a length of ten long years before she realized her wrong. She mixed with the wrong company, and she became hurt.

One question BB, have you been nice to your sister throughout the years? Do not argue or cry in front of your sister. Siblings do get on each other's nerves, and sometimes, they wish their siblings to go away. If you have been nice, be nicer to your sister. That is just my advice.

Most importantly, hang in there. :)




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