Title: Tacoma 3
Administrator - November 21, 2007 01:25 AM (GMT)
Dan Murphy - November 21, 2007 01:56 AM (GMT)
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| Do you see anyone from LGM creating open websites for everyone to read. As an active member in the church I have not even heard one word about why people have left or one ill word about them as people. |
Darn it Janebob, I said i wouldn't respond to you until you responded to the questions posed to you, but i can't resist because this very issue is one of things that really began to bother me. Before i left that place i started asking questions like "why are so many long term, quality servants leaving this place, and why aren't we talking about the reasons that they are leaving as if they may possibly have some validity"? Instead lies and deception are being spread about. This question was quickly dismissed and denegrated by leaders in your church. I was gently rebuked for asking the question by fellow board members as if i was speaking for the devil himself. Janebob, if you want to be in a church where the leadership is more concerned about protecting a program or a system than caring about people, then you are in the right place. Have fun! BTW, it would seem that many people, maybe even you, are more concerned about defending a man and a system than considering all the evidence at hand. Do you know what that says? It says that such people are more concerned about loyalty than truth. You are not alone, i was in your shoes for a long time, but couldn't suppress the truth and the wrong doings any longer. B) Dan
Greg Warren - November 21, 2007 02:39 AM (GMT)
Sibiricus,
The Leadership book has always been sold openly to the public. That really was not my point. The book is addressing the topic of leadership and is recommended reading and studying for "future pastors". My point is you cant find a standard doctrine booklet about how to determine if your pastor is struggling with affiliation. You can read in the leadership manual ( a book by its very own title directed to train leaders on how to lead) a way to determine if your pastor is now "getting off". I find this as a way to say, "HEY dont say these things or you will be noted as being divisive and not one with vision with Baltimore. Of course " we never taught that here".
Side note: Schaller when I openly confronted him and asked if the issues from Sandy Cove would be brought up to the congregation in Baltimore told me "what issues". I said well how about one Pastor teacher for life. His response was, " I have never believed that nor have I ever taught it" I was a bit ASTOUNDED at his response. He continued, " I dont think Dr Stevens ever taught it either, show me one video or doctrine booklet with that teaching, I think it came from teh guy from texas". I looked at him puzzled and said, " well you got me, I cant quote where it is in print but thats not the problem the problem is half the church here believes it how did they come to understand that doctrine and believe it" His answer was, " I have not been here I have been overseas so I dont know what people believe".
We never taught that here! Was Thomas Schallers response to my inquiry.
Nothing is really ever prohibited per se in GGWO. John Collins bought the Sandy Cove documents in the Book store after we had a few conversations about it. He simply walked in and bought it. How many people do you think who were "in the know" would have done that. There had been weeks and weeks of belittling the sandy cove conference no one would do it without feeling they had betrayed the ministry or Schaller or Stevens or even God.
ASTOUNDED
My my my. I have been out at work all day and decided to check this out when I came home. Here is a really good point of discussion. Of course you felt attacked by my calling your words a threat. your words were about like this. ( BTW did you notice that I mentioned how you would respond prior to you posting, the reason is it was textbook) " Meagan I think you should consider not saying more before somebody decides to tell what you have done" I might be wrong but that was about what you said. This is how we talk in the background we came from. My suggestion to you was to bring your words, try to remember exactly what you said, to a counselor or outside party and give the context of how it was written and let them determine if your words contain a threat. You would call it a sincere warning of what could happen to her. How is she supposed to take it. It is a warning that someone will expose her if she continues to post. Who is this someone?
Anyway. another great point of conversation is this. What you did by detracting your post and not allowing it to stand on its own merits and then trying to clarify what you meant is the real reason no one can "go alone to leadership" and get satisfaction. There is nothing to discuss. If the leadership agrees with you fine. We have also been trained that it is innappropriate to disagree with leadership. Who is going to continue when they find out that leadership has no intention of agreeing with them? We simply have no capacity to actually interact with people that disagree with us. If someone disagrees then " They are against us" I hope you see the points I am making.
ASTOUNDED! I am not your enemy! In fact I could probably be your friend even if we disagree but we must be able to have interaction to do so.
_Brett_ - November 21, 2007 03:22 AM (GMT)
Re: ASTOUNDED several posters saw your message before you erased it. In fact it is fair to say that more than "two witnesses" saw it. If you believe people are twisting your words, then REPOST your message.
Re: The Leadership manual
Many copies have been imported from Baltimore to Tacoma over a period of several years and they were used as a textbook for several Bible college classes.
At this point in time even the author would concede that the manual is slanted.
Dan Murphy - November 21, 2007 03:40 AM (GMT)
I find it absolutely absurd that the main point of rebuttal toward the issues that are brought up on this site is to focus on Megan. You LGM'ers that post on here using that method are embarrasing to your own cause. You prove that, like the leader you blindly defend, there is no rational defense to the issues that are brought up here, only diversion and coverup tactics. You also prove that, like the leader you blindly defend, that you care more about loyalty to a man and an organization than you do about people. I seriously doubt that you have read the previous two threads with an open mind as to whether the things said are true or not, but only with a mind to defend at all cost. It will be a tough pill for you to swallow on the day that you finally leave because you've seen enough, or are burned out and can't find Jesus any longer, or any of the many reasons that people are leaving GG/LGM ministries. Fret not, we will love and accept you regardless. I would invite you to consider answering the questions that have been posed to you, even if you answer them only to your self, if you're honest with yourself i think that you'll find that there is no rational defense for the problems that exist in LGM. Dan
Megan Aloisio - November 21, 2007 04:59 AM (GMT)
Dan....thank you for your post! Great point!
This will be my LAST post for a while on this website. However, please do not be mistaken. You have not SHUT me up or changed my OPINION on the subject of LGM. Anyone who actually comes to me with questions, insight, or insult will get my HONEST answers and opinions. If there is one thing I learned since leaving LGM is to approach each day and each person with complete HONESTY. Learning and reading and experiencing FIRST hand how CRUEL people can be has taught me and made me want to be the most HONEST I can even at the risk of hurting others. Because as you can see by your sensless attacks.... LIES and INSINCERITY hurt way more.
I do have one question for you... (TILLIS, ASTOUNDED, WISE ONE...and all the others who have tried to make this website about me and my flaws) Where and the Hell were you before I started posting? This website was created and had atleast 70 pages before I even got here. Where were you before I even left? You were probably pretending to love me and befriend me, you were probably sitting beside me in messages, you were probably laughing and joking with me, you were probably hugging me and serving God beside me, You were probably listening as I cried on your shoulders, You were probably bumming rides off of me, You were probably calling me to substitute for you in a ministry, You were probably claiming to love God and Love people with the love that God created.
What changed?????? You are so interested in my sins and flaws and appearance that you come on here and spread lies or half truths about me. You give your "honest" opinion of me and what you think my heart is. You come on here and uncover and slander and threaten when I guarentee you will probably be sittin gin your church tomorrow night acting o so spiratual and kind. You will be sitting there treating someone else the same way you probably treated me....but what happens when they leave or disagree with you? Are you going to treat them the same way???
Now to clarify one more time... I have NEVER claimed to be a PERFECT WOMAN with NO FLAWS. I have never claimed to have never made bad decisions! I totally and wholeheartedly repented ALREADY for the things of my past. I know your point is not only to hurt me but to distract the others from discussing and healing through the REAL issues but how can you, people who claim to LOVE God treat somebody else like that??? anyone not just me???? You are entitled to disagree but instead of a legitamate argument...you think its ok to come one here and talk about a persons figure.....marriage....sins....You think its ok to accuse me and rich (a dear friend of mine) of such awful things??? How could you? How could you have pretended to love someone and be so fake. FAKE PEOPLE SUCK!
I remember when I was STILL attending LGM and we went to a dinner with some of the ex pastors. They answered our questions HONESTLY and LEGITAMATELY. They never once slandered anyone in the church. We were able to have a DISCUSSION not an INSULT FEST. IT was definitly an eye opener but not only that it was a validated discussion that in no way was intended to hurt people. That is also what this website is....REAL PEOPLE with REAL ISSUES not cruel people coming on here to call people out and slander their name!
Lastly, as I said before... I am in no way shutting up. I still believe the system is wrong! and you know what else... I still love CHRIST and Jesus still loves me. I do not need you or anyone else to validate my charachter as my character is VALIDATED in CHRIST ALONE! and NO ONE.... no matter what you say can take my salvation away from me.
TO all others on this website...THANK YOU for the discussions and answers and references and LEGITAMATE arguments on this site. It HAS been extremly helpful and I cant thank you all enough! I look forward to seeing you all soon and spending time with TRUE REAL GENUINE people who have the same LOVE for GOD and PEOPLE!
Megan Aloisio
Dan Murphy - November 21, 2007 05:29 AM (GMT)
Megan, you have more class, brains and character in your little finger than 'wiseone, Lgm4life, Tilis,etc have in in their entire souls, at least until they pull their loyalist heads out of their a$$e$ and leave that place. Take a good rest from this site, you deserve it for all you've had to put up with. Your replies to their nasty attacks have shown them to be the mis-guided fools that they are (at least until they leave that place). We'll see you and Joe soon. Dan
heartscry - November 21, 2007 05:35 AM (GMT)
I WAS NOT THREATENING MEGAN IN ANY WAY. I WAS GIVING HER A FRIENDLY SUGGEESTION! PLEASE DO NOT TWIST MY WORDS! I WASNT SAYING THAT I WAS GOING TO OUT HER... I WAS SAYING TO BE CAREFUL AS ALL OF YOU SHOULD BECAUSE SOME OF THE PEOPLE AT LGM WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM POSTING THINGS ON HERE THAT YOU NECASSARILY DONT WANT OTHERS TO KNOW!
I DELETED MY POST BECAUSE YOU ATTACKED IT WITHIN FIVE MINUTES!
ASTOUNDED
Alright Astounded, I really don’t want to post but I will. It is so pitiful to read your post and I will try to help you. I will save you from yourself, your people and the evil system you are now under. I really really don’t want to post because I know what the people in this church are capable of. Anyways here it goes:
The truth about the attendees can be found in your own words about people in LGM whom are willing to “Protect Pastor” or “The System” with their attacks. Lets call them “The Covering Arc Angles” I agree that people should “Be Careful” These people are considered an asset and heroes in the system I Promise you that. These are the ones that participating church members by the way, have to work with (Certainly if you are not in the inner circle) The horrific truth about this sad, sad system is that it breads characters that love to control and oppress and attack people with any advantage they can by using the power of the system to their advantage. These Covering Arc Angles are actually cannibals and probably have had training from the man himself.
I bestow this truth upon you so that you can really know what it is like and has become.
You can do what ever you want with the information. I imagine that you are a pastor or a pastors wife that is in the inner circle, or perhaps you are a person that hasn’t played a role in any kind of leadership, so how would you know.
It is so sad that in a place that even has the word “Grace” in its title would have people in its fold that no one would tell that they don’t know the first thing about grace and they are left to judge others, oppress them, control them ect. And the true leadership TURNS THEIR BACKS!!! Oh won’t one of you that are there now stand for what is right. You know what I say is true. Take a stand for yourself, Take a stand for your family,Take a stand for your maker. Yes there are plenty of people their at LGM that will be more than willing to attack people, or sin, or direct a personal attack at you posters here on Discussggwo. They are well practiced at what they do. (Sad way of ‘’fellowship’’ in a place called Living Grace)
There is so much more that I could say about committing all things to God but it would fill up the whole page. There are many things I could say about freedom, equality and true grace. To put it plainly so that a child could understand it, are the people treating others the way they would like to be treated? Would they like to answer to a man or God? Is there really a choice? I hope you find this information helpful. Take time to go before the Lord in prayer on these issues.
Insight - November 21, 2007 05:47 AM (GMT)
Much love to you Megan, Psalm 12:7; O Lord, you will keep us safe and protect us from such people forever.
As taken from the Carl Stevens.org site, which is a mirror image of practices to this day at LGM:
''A number of people have been with GGWO for 10, 20 and even more years. They considered GGWO their "final" destination for a local church here on earth. In the beginning everything looks so good at GGWO and you feel "home" so to speak - seemingly a true evangelical Christian Church. No doubt, there are many, many people in GGWO that are very loving, kind and have the same intentions like we had: to study the Word of God to get to know Jesus Christ and to share Him with others and being in a fellowship of like-minded folks - simply put our desire was genuine Christianity. We appreciated the acceptance, the friendships, the apparent sincere concerns and encouragements, and the hoped-for teaching of the pure Word of God.
Think about how shocking and devastating it was when certain odd things happened and the true colors of GGWO were shown. And as we were indoctrinated to give "Grace" in every situation and to just keep quiet, pray and let God take care of situations, lots of things were never mentioned again, because we obeyed our "leaders" which were CHS (Carl H. Stevens) and other influential pastors. And they used the Word of God to condition our minds to be obedient. And when something happened once that might have been alright and we'll let it go as there's no perfect church -- we give "Grace." Then if something happens twice, alright then, lets give "Grace" again, but if it's an ongoing thing for over 35+ years and it's not hearsay, but fact and absolute reality and it goes on and on and on, then people start to ask questions, and that's exactly what thousands of former GGWO/TBS people have done over the years. Remember, that key GGWO/TBS folks have left GGWO over last few years - these people were pillars of the church and have been with GGWO for some 20-30 years. It's a gigantic step to leave GGWO after such a very long time.
And also, at GGWO we all have been conditioned not to talk about things because it has been taught us that no matter if a matter is true or not, you don't tell it to others as supposedly you violate 35 major Bible doctrines and the judgement which should the guilty party should receive, will in turn supposedly fall on you if you tell and even if you utter your concerns. Don't say that these kinds of threats which are established in the mind over many years, and that this kind of fear is not abuse and cultic behavior? If GGWO didn't have anything to hide, then such weird out-of-context doctrines would never be emphasized. ''
Janebob, Astounded, Tilis, LGMforlife, SWP, is the Holy Spirit tugging at your heart strings over these harmful facts?
Penelope - November 21, 2007 06:01 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Megan Aloisio @ Nov 20 2007, 06:59 PM) |
Dan....thank you for your post! Great point!
This will be my LAST post for a while on this website. However, please do not be mistaken. You have not SHUT me up or changed my OPINION on the subject of LGM. Anyone who actually comes to me with questions, insight, or insult will get my HONEST answers and opinions. If there is one thing I learned since leaving LGM is to approach each day and each person with complete HONESTY. Learning and reading and experiencing FIRST hand how CRUEL people can be has taught me and made me want to be the most HONEST I can even at the risk of hurting others. Because as you can see by your sensless attacks.... LIES and INSINCERITY hurt way more.
I do have one question for you... (TILLIS, ASTOUNDED, WISE ONE...and all the others who have tried to make this website about me and my flaws) Where and the Hell were you before I started posting? This website was created and had atleast 70 pages before I even got here. Where were you before I even left? You were probably pretending to love me and befriend me, you were probably sitting beside me in messages, you were probably laughing and joking with me, you were probably hugging me and serving God beside me, You were probably listening as I cried on your shoulders, You were probably bumming rides off of me, You were probably calling me to substitute for you in a ministry, You were probably claiming to love God and Love people with the love that God created.
What changed?????? You are so interested in my sins and flaws and appearance that you come on here and spread lies or half truths about me. You give your "honest" opinion of me and what you think my heart is. You come on here and uncover and slander and threaten when I guarentee you will probably be sittin gin your church tomorrow night acting o so spiratual and kind. You will be sitting there treating someone else the same way you probably treated me....but what happens when they leave or disagree with you? Are you going to treat them the same way???
Now to clarify one more time... I have NEVER claimed to be a PERFECT WOMAN with NO FLAWS. I have never claimed to have never made bad decisions! I totally and wholeheartedly repented ALREADY for the things of my past. I know your point is not only to hurt me but to distract the others from discussing and healing through the REAL issues but how can you, people who claim to LOVE God treat somebody else like that??? anyone not just me???? You are entitled to disagree but instead of a legitamate argument...you think its ok to come one here and talk about a persons figure.....marriage....sins....You think its ok to accuse me and rich (a dear friend of mine) of such awful things??? How could you? How could you have pretended to love someone and be so fake. FAKE PEOPLE SUCK!
I remember when I was STILL attending LGM and we went to a dinner with some of the ex pastors. They answered our questions HONESTLY and LEGITAMATELY. They never once slandered anyone in the church. We were able to have a DISCUSSION not an INSULT FEST. IT was definitly an eye opener but not only that it was a validated discussion that in no way was intended to hurt people. That is also what this website is....REAL PEOPLE with REAL ISSUES not cruel people coming on here to call people out and slander their name!
Lastly, as I said before... I am in no way shutting up. I still believe the system is wrong! and you know what else... I still love CHRIST and Jesus still loves me. I do not need you or anyone else to validate my charachter as my character is VALIDATED in CHRIST ALONE! and NO ONE.... no matter what you say can take my salvation away from me.
TO all others on this website...THANK YOU for the discussions and answers and references and LEGITAMATE arguments on this site. It HAS been extremly helpful and I cant thank you all enough! I look forward to seeing you all soon and spending time with TRUE REAL GENUINE people who have the same LOVE for GOD and PEOPLE!
Megan Aloisio |
[SIZE=7]Megan...don't you let these people intimidate you....You are a beautiful person and have so much to offer! You go GIRL!!!!!! I said I won't post again, but other's have made me realized that it's okay to disagree....What was once considered an evil report isn't an an evil report when it's only meant to cover up other's failures.
I love you girl! You hang in there :wub:
Dan Murphy - November 21, 2007 06:06 AM (GMT)
Preach it Penny, nice to hear from you again.
Penelope - November 21, 2007 06:16 AM (GMT)
You know what...I am struggling with my own statement , because I have been taught not to speak evil of anyone! Not to question?????
Insight - November 21, 2007 06:28 AM (GMT)
Penny, it was such a form of manipulation & control when we were taught to never speak of negatives. Exposing the wrongs that are harmful to peoples souls is not 'evil'. Look at the double standards from the LGM posters. ''Never speak evil'', but yet they come on the site exposing faults, weakness', repented of sins. It's the do as I say principle, not as I do. Wicked to the core!
LGM FOR LIFE - November 21, 2007 06:37 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Dan Murphy @ Nov 21 2007, 12:29 AM) |
| Megan, you have more class, brains and character in your little finger than 'wiseone, Lgm4life, Tilis,etc have in in their entire souls, at least until they pull their loyalist heads out of their a$$e$ and leave that place. Take a good rest from this site, you deserve it for all you've had to put up with. Your replies to their nasty attacks have shown them to be the mis-guided fools that they are (at least until they leave that place). We'll see you and Joe soon. Dan |
My head is not in my a$$ dan, but thanks for thinking of me. Oh, by the way I've been gone for the last 6 days and noticed a offer to play football on Thanksgiving. Honestly I think you guys would really lose. There are far more athletic men in the church then have left the church. It would be just a shame to see you guys lose to the more spiritual team.
FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LGM FOR LIFE - November 21, 2007 06:41 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (heartscry @ Nov 21 2007, 12:35 AM) |
I WAS NOT THREATENING MEGAN IN ANY WAY. I WAS GIVING HER A FRIENDLY SUGGEESTION! PLEASE DO NOT TWIST MY WORDS! I WASNT SAYING THAT I WAS GOING TO OUT HER... I WAS SAYING TO BE CAREFUL AS ALL OF YOU SHOULD BECAUSE SOME OF THE PEOPLE AT LGM WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM POSTING THINGS ON HERE THAT YOU NECASSARILY DONT WANT OTHERS TO KNOW!
I DELETED MY POST BECAUSE YOU ATTACKED IT WITHIN FIVE MINUTES!
ASTOUNDED
Alright Astounded, I really don’t want to post but I will. It is so pitiful to read your post and I will try to help you. I will save you from yourself, your people and the evil system you are now under. I really really don’t want to post because I know what the people in this church are capable of. Anyways here it goes:
The truth about the attendees can be found in your own words about people in LGM whom are willing to “Protect Pastor” or “The System” with their attacks. Lets call them “The Covering Arc Angles” I agree that people should “Be Careful” These people are considered an asset and heroes in the system I Promise you that. These are the ones that participating church members by the way, have to work with (Certainly if you are not in the inner circle) The horrific truth about this sad, sad system is that it breads characters that love to control and oppress and attack people with any advantage they can by using the power of the system to their advantage. These Covering Arc Angles are actually cannibals and probably have had training from the man himself.
I bestow this truth upon you so that you can really know what it is like and has become. You can do what ever you want with the information. I imagine that you are a pastor or a pastors wife that is in the inner circle, or perhaps you are a person that hasn’t played a role in any kind of leadership, so how would you know.
It is so sad that in a place that even has the word “Grace” in its title would have people in its fold that no one would tell that they don’t know the first thing about grace and they are left to judge others, oppress them, control them ect. And the true leadership TURNS THEIR BACKS!!! Oh won’t one of you that are there now stand for what is right. You know what I say is true. Take a stand for yourself, Take a stand for your family,Take a stand for your maker. Yes there are plenty of people their at LGM that will be more than willing to attack people, or sin, or direct a personal attack at you posters here on Discussggwo. They are well practiced at what they do. (Sad way of ‘’fellowship’’ in a place called Living Grace) There is so much more that I could say about committing all things to God but it would fill up the whole page. There are many things I could say about freedom, equality and true grace. To put it plainly so that a child could understand it, are the people treating others the way they would like to be treated? Would they like to answer to a man or God? Is there really a choice? I hope you find this information helpful. Take time to go before the Lord in prayer on these issues. |
I dont feel bad for anything that I have said. Also, if you look back I have never said a bad thing about Megan. Just people who took advantage of the church. I see that ABC doesn't post here anymore, she must have felt guilty when she was called on the carpet about leaving when work was done.
FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh, HAPPY THANKSGIVING. GO PIE AUCTION.
FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dan Murphy - November 21, 2007 06:45 AM (GMT)
Penny, we shouldn't speak evil of others, but the question is......What the heck does that mean? We were given a distorted understanding of what that means through a ministry that was created by a man who twisted the scriptures and created doctrines in order to hide his unrepented of sins and to conceal his unfettered lust for power, which by the way are far closer to evil than this site will ever be. I say speak, speak, and speak till you don't want to speak anymore. I believe with all of my heart that God is not only ok with this site, He's promoting it!Dan
Dan Murphy - November 21, 2007 06:52 AM (GMT)
Ahhh, LGM, glad you're back. You make such a good mouth piece for TP. You reveal his heart oh so clearly. Everytime you post, i trully believe that people on the fence inch a little closer to leaving. Keep it up. Dan B)
Ps. are there enough people still attending to fill up a football team for a turkey bowl game? I think we'll have you out numbered soon. Let's make it a Christmas day game instead. B)
richklutz - November 21, 2007 07:09 AM (GMT)
Yay. lgm4l is back to distract and evade. Welcome back, I guess. My offer is still open for you to tell me off. See you Wednesday?
Reunion_O2 - November 21, 2007 07:09 AM (GMT)
Since the last few days of posts have been intense and most refreshing.
Let's all enjoy a "Stair Way to Heaven" for a momentIt's coming you know.
Robert
Channel A, B & C - November 21, 2007 07:36 AM (GMT)
''To all of the members of Living Grace Church who participated in the construction of the addition of Dan and Lauren's home, I will be eternally grateful.
I have never asked for a free ride for anything in my whole life. Both my husband and I have worked hard for everything that we had in New Orleans. For all of this to be taken from us in one moment, has us still relling. Do you realize how that feels? The wonderful gift from Lauren and Dan to us is both heart warming and comforting, that at last we will have a home where we feel blessed by God. We really thought your participation was supernatural and we are eternally grateful. There was no conspiracy in getting members of your church to participate in the work on this addition. From my husband and I, or from Lauren or Dan.
If any of you feel this way, that money is owed to you for what you have done for me, I will try to come up with some sort of payments to you from my social security check as I have always tried to pay my way. Could you please tell me what Katrina money that is being referred to? Do you know what struggle the thousands of people from Louisiana have been in trying to get any assistance? The Katrina money has either run out since the population of the area was 1.5 million people. There is no financial support being given to any builders, or construction companies.
Your attack on my daughter and her husband is unwarranted and meanspirited. I always attended your church each time I visited. I saw warm and kind Christian people who made me feel loved and welcomed. Now I am confused and baffled by what is occuring. How could someone in your church place such horrible things on the web about people who have left? How can anyone want to attend a church with that kind of heart represented?
There has to be an answer as to why all of this is happening. I have attended the Catholic church since I was a young child. I have never experienced anything like this when I changed parish church's. What is this? I will be praying for all of you.''
Sincerely, Iris Gueno
To the precious believers at Living Grace, our family's heart was never to 'use' you.
ASTOUNDED - November 21, 2007 07:51 AM (GMT)
1.PASTOR IS NOT A DOCTOR.... OR A PSYCHIATRIST. WHEN YOU CAME TO HIM WITH YOUR PROBLEMS HE GAVE YOU LOVE AND PRAYER WHICH IS WHAT HE AS A PASTOR IS EXPECTED TO DO. TO THE ONE WHO CAME TO HIM FOR HELP WITH THEIR DAUGHTER... HE COULD NOT CONTROL WHAT YOUR DAUGHTER WAS GONNA DO OR ALREADY DID! HE OFFERED HIS PRAYER AND COMFORT... SO HOW CAN YOU COMPLAIN THAT HE DID NOT HELP?
2. PASTOR IS ONLY A MAN. GIVE HIM A BREAK! YES PEOPLE HAVE PROBLEMS BUT WHY DO YOU EXPECT HIM TO CARRY THE HEAVY WEIGHT AND FIX ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS.
3. ONCE AGAIN. I WAS NOT THREATENING MEGAN AND IAM SORRY THAT IT SEEMED THAT WAY. I SEE THAT SHE HAS BEEN THE BRUNT OF SOME PRETTY AWFUL COMMENTSBUT THAT WAS NOT MY INTENTION. I DO THINK THAT SHE IS WISE TO STAY AWAY FOR AWHILE. I THINK THAT IN DOING THAT PEOPLE WILL LEAVE HER ALONE. YES HER PAST IS HER PERSONAL PAST BUT PEOPLE KNOW THAT INFORMATION AND HUMAN NATURE TEACHES US THAT PEOPLE TALK ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY HAVE SOMETHING JUICY.
4. DAN AND LAUREN. I THINK THE POINT THAT 4 LIFE IS TRYING TO MAKE CONTINUOSLY IS THAT IT SEEMED A BIT COINCIDENTAL THAT YOUR LEAVING THE CHURCH CAM RIGHT AFTER YOUR HOUSE WAS FINISHED.
5. STICKING UP AND DEFENDING YOURSELVES IS NOT PROVING YOUR POINT. WE ARE "ATTACKING" YOU JUST AS YOU ARE ATTACKING US AND OUR PASTOR.
FINALLY. PLEASE STOP THIS MOCKERY OF OUR CHURCH! IT IS SENSLESS AND A WASTE OF TIME AND IS HELPING NO ONE!
sibiricus - November 21, 2007 08:50 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Greg Warren @ Nov 21 2007, 05:39 AM) |
My point is you cant find a standard doctrine booklet about how to determine if your pastor is struggling with affiliation.
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Thank you for your patience, Greg and thank you for the clarification. I really must refrain myself from reading these posts late in the night or when in a hurry.
Sibiricus
_Brett_ - November 21, 2007 01:45 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (ASTOUNDED @ Nov 21 2007, 02:51 AM) |
1.PASTOR IS NOT A DOCTOR.... OR A PSYCHIATRIST. WHEN YOU CAME TO HIM WITH YOUR PROBLEMS HE GAVE YOU LOVE AND PRAYER WHICH IS WHAT HE AS A PASTOR IS EXPECTED TO DO. TO THE ONE WHO CAME TO HIM FOR HELP WITH THEIR DAUGHTER... HE COULD NOT CONTROL WHAT YOUR DAUGHTER WAS GONNA DO OR ALREADY DID! HE OFFERED HIS PRAYER AND COMFORT... SO HOW CAN YOU COMPLAIN THAT HE DID NOT HELP?
2. PASTOR IS ONLY A MAN. GIVE HIM A BREAK! YES PEOPLE HAVE PROBLEMS BUT WHY DO YOU EXPECT HIM TO CARRY THE HEAVY WEIGHT AND FIX ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS.
3. ONCE AGAIN. I WAS NOT THREATENING MEGAN AND IAM SORRY THAT IT SEEMED THAT WAY. I SEE THAT SHE HAS BEEN THE BRUNT OF SOME PRETTY AWFUL COMMENTSBUT THAT WAS NOT MY INTENTION. I DO THINK THAT SHE IS WISE TO STAY AWAY FOR AWHILE. I THINK THAT IN DOING THAT PEOPLE WILL LEAVE HER ALONE. YES HER PAST IS HER PERSONAL PAST BUT PEOPLE KNOW THAT INFORMATION AND HUMAN NATURE TEACHES US THAT PEOPLE TALK ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY HAVE SOMETHING JUICY.
4. DAN AND LAUREN. I THINK THE POINT THAT 4 LIFE IS TRYING TO MAKE CONTINUOSLY IS THAT IT SEEMED A BIT COINCIDENTAL THAT YOUR LEAVING THE CHURCH CAM RIGHT AFTER YOUR HOUSE WAS FINISHED.
5. STICKING UP AND DEFENDING YOURSELVES IS NOT PROVING YOUR POINT. WE ARE "ATTACKING" YOU JUST AS YOU ARE ATTACKING US AND OUR PASTOR.
FINALLY. PLEASE STOP THIS MOCKERY OF OUR CHURCH! IT IS SENSLESS AND A WASTE OF TIME AND IS HELPING NO ONE! |
You are not very good at trolling. Why do you log-in and harass people that have a different point of view than yours?
Dan Murphy - November 21, 2007 02:48 PM (GMT)
Why all the capital letters 'astounded'? Someone got your dander up? Please don't take my lack of response to your diatribe as meaning i have no response, but only that it is tiresome to say the same things over and over only to have them be ignored instead of refuted with sound reasoning. Dan B)
Ok, i'll respond to this one line.
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| FINALLY. PLEASE STOP THIS MOCKERY OF OUR CHURCH! IT IS SENSLESS AND A WASTE OF TIME AND IS HELPING NO ONE! |
Your pastor is the one making a mockery out of that place, we're simply pointing it out to any that want to see.
It is not a senseless waste of time. I find great satisfaction reading and posting on this site. How can you call something that is clearly of God, and healing to so many a waste of time? :o
It is helping many. People are being informed of the truth. People are leaving that place because of the truth. People that are out are on the fast track to figuring out what the heck they were involved in. People are able to put together the pieces much sooner because of this site. So i guess people are being helped. B)
In Darkness - November 21, 2007 05:39 PM (GMT)
1.PASTOR IS NOT A DOCTOR.... OR A PSYCHIATRIST. WHEN YOU CAME TO HIM WITH YOUR PROBLEMS HE GAVE YOU LOVE AND PRAYER WHICH IS WHAT HE AS A PASTOR IS EXPECTED TO DO. TO THE ONE WHO CAME TO HIM FOR HELP WITH THEIR DAUGHTER... HE COULD NOT CONTROL WHAT YOUR DAUGHTER WAS GONNA DO OR ALREADY DID! HE OFFERED HIS PRAYER AND COMFORT... SO HOW CAN YOU COMPLAIN THAT HE DID NOT HELP?
Oh my God ! Are you Tom Powell?
I remember there was only the three of us in that room so who the hell are you to post what tp said or did?
I was there. @ the request of the mother. She wanted me to sit with her as she was alittle shy to go talk to him.
My question is this to you since he has given you the right to speak for him.
Post note: I remember he said in a staff meeting over 10 years ago that we where not to speak for him in any circumstance, but to encourage the person to go to him.
With all of Powell's education, you cannot tell me that he wasn't taught that people were going to come to him with tremendous hurt and pain in their lives looking for God's help. He should have known that he would not be albe to help many of these who needed professional care beyound his limited ability.
He should have spent some of his time getting to know those who could help that he could refer those of us to.
He should have had a long list ready for such events.
Was he so proud to think his pseudo love and his prayers would make all things better and we would just go away?
I learned this out at the prison with out the expensive education.
It's called life in Christ and being with those who had need of the great physician , not sitting behind a desk.
Please answer this. A real pastor should seek out others to help when it becomes to much for him. Hint hint hint
I went to him when I had heard the young girl was in the hospital and would you like to know what his comment to me was?
Or better yet, you can ask him if he remembers what he said to ME and get his side of the story as he always says there are two sides.
I remember and if the mother gives me permission I will tell you. That will reveil who the man that needs you to post on his behalf really is.
Sorry this is such a sad thing for you, know that it was for me.
Please be a truth seeker, Kim
Mark Aloisio - November 21, 2007 06:24 PM (GMT)
Dan, LGM is right, "My head is not in my A$$", it's in Tommy P's A$$. This is where all the inner circle folks there in beautiful downtown Tacomer have their heads. Why don't all of you in the inner circle come out and get in the light. Get some you know whats and ask Tommy to step down from the pulpit. What a glorious Thanksgiving that would be for the unfortunate souls still there listening to dead messages service after service.
As for the football game, LGM, you probably don't even know how to throw a football--maybe you can throw a soccer ball.
Oh, by the way, I found the place I was looking for!
To All, have a blessed Thanksgiving.
The Brady Bunch - November 21, 2007 06:51 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (In Darkness @ Nov 21 2007, 12:39 PM) |
Oh my God ! Are you Tom Powell? I remember there was only the three of us in that room so who the hell are you to post what tp said or did?
I was there. @ the request of the mother. She wanted me to sit with her as she was alittle shy to go talk to him.
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The above quote from In-Darkness proves beyond any doubt that you are not safe in a private, close door, meetings or couseling sessions with these leader(s). The pages on these threads have exposed this over and over again. Please, if anyone at LGM and your families need private or closed door meetings, Follow this:
Advice: Take multiple people with you for witnesses. No more one on one with any leader or leadership.
This person Astounded just proved pages and pages of posts. ;)
Mike
In Darkness - November 21, 2007 07:07 PM (GMT)
2. PASTOR IS ONLY A MAN. GIVE HIM A BREAK! YES PEOPLE HAVE PROBLEMS BUT WHY DO YOU EXPECT HIM TO CARRY THE HEAVY WEIGHT AND FIX ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS.
Then why do you worship him and defend him to us?
WHY DO YOU EXPECT HIM TO CARRY THE HEAVY WEIGHT AND FIX ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS. Maybe because he was told by CS that he had a pastors heart, and he thought he did too an that's the call to be pastor with the answeres to fix all of our problems.
You must not have been to him for help yourself as you don't see yourself in need of his pastoring that anyone else would.
What problems would people have if they would just listen to the messages preach, there wouldn't be any need to go in to get one on one counseling, as all our problems could be delt with from the pulpit." I remember that message.
Doesn't that statement in it self say it all!!!
What world do you live in????
People hurt from people like powell's lack of (not education)but true compassion.
Coming along side those who truly make bad choices, and what about those who have bad choice perpetrated on them? What about the day to day drama, and self centered people, and there is truely evil men in this world?
Please if what I say here hurts you or the things you read at this site do, promise me you won't go to him and get his help, because you can't look to him for all your problems to be fixed. You said "why would we expect him to""""
I still bet there is no list.
When I found out about a situation of the need of a counseling it took us less then 1 day to get alist of 3 ref. from our family Dr. and it took tom powell 2years and two weeks. But the other people got in to others right away by his admission.
Ask him what I'm talking about , or who?
Amazing Grace, Kim
Out Haus Preachah - November 21, 2007 08:10 PM (GMT)
The "trolls" that post here are like gifts that keep on giving...
Joseph S. Aloisio - November 21, 2007 10:43 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (LGM FOR LIFE @ Nov 21 2007, 01:37 AM) |
My head is not in my a$$ dan, but thanks for thinking of me. Oh, by the way I've been gone for the last 6 days and noticed a offer to play football on Thanksgiving. Honestly I think you guys would really lose. There are far more athletic men in the church then have left the church. It would be just a shame to see you guys lose to the more spiritual team. FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Listen I know that you are living in the dorms! How is your computer? It hasn't got stolen yet huh?
About the football umm..... you can't count those guys who only go about twice every month! I think you should only be able to count those really diehard faithful followers, Since those are the spiritual ones. I mean the spiritual ones in your minds don't drink, swear, listen to rock music, smoke, have bonfires, etc... are you sure there are enough to play now?
Joe
Mark Aloisio - November 21, 2007 11:40 PM (GMT)
To all those still at LGM who post on this site, why must you always attack Joe & Megan? Why not me? I was there some 20+ years. You all must have heard an earful from your beloved Tommy Powell about me. (Oh yeh, I forgot he never talks behind our backs!)
I know my son and daughter-in-law don't need their papa to go to bat for them, but I'm tired of them being attacked all the time. STOP ATTACKING MEGAN--ATTACK ME IF YOU DARE YOU A$$ KISSING MICKY VICKEY'S who spew out poinsonous venom from your pious mouths. Maybe you don't attack me because you know I have the resources to legally fight back, but BRING IT ON! I'm not as gentle as Joe and Megan and I'm ready for you, you spineless vultures. Vultures are so gutless that they wait until their prey is already dead to pick at them. You're like snakes without backbones who slither in the dirt. You're not worth the ground you crawl on you deluded creeps. If you want a good fight, come after me! You might get something de-programmed if you do. Pray about it and get back to me. By the way, you can always call me; my phone number is in the phone book. My name and number haven't changed since I left as I have nothing to hide. My sins were paid for on Calvary, not by Tommy P., and they have been forgiven and forgotten as were Megan and Joe's.
Out Haus Preachah - November 21, 2007 11:54 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (ASTOUNDED @ Nov 21 2007, 02:51 AM) |
1.PASTOR IS NOT A DOCTOR.... OR A PSYCHIATRIST. WHEN YOU CAME TO HIM WITH YOUR PROBLEMS HE GAVE YOU LOVE AND PRAYER WHICH IS WHAT HE AS A PASTOR IS EXPECTED TO DO. TO THE ONE WHO CAME TO HIM FOR HELP WITH THEIR DAUGHTER... HE COULD NOT CONTROL WHAT YOUR DAUGHTER WAS GONNA DO OR ALREADY DID! HE OFFERED HIS PRAYER AND COMFORT... SO HOW CAN YOU COMPLAIN THAT HE DID NOT HELP?
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We know he is not a Doctor. Heck! How did he get a masters degree when the bachelors degree he has was not from a regionally accredited school? Why does he receive remuneration that would rival only a doctors?
Thou shalt not muzzle the mouth of the ox that treadeth out the corn.
Oh Yeah. I forgot...
In Darkness - November 22, 2007 12:30 AM (GMT)
I went to him when I had heard the young girl was in the hospital and would you like to know what his comment to me was?
Hey Jane Bob and Astounded Please come back and ask some real questions I might have some answers and maybe you will have some for me.
I'll be here off and on over the Thanksgiving weekend if you get a chance to post.
I'll be thanking Jesus for your health and loved ones. Enjoy the pie auction tonight. Love to you both, Kim
ps you can email me also I know I must know you.
Don't be afraid of truth it will only set you free if you want to be.
Dan Murphy - November 22, 2007 12:30 AM (GMT)
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We know he is not a Doctor. Heck! How did he get a masters degree when the bachelors degree he has was not from a regionally accredited school? Why does he receive remuneration that would rival only a doctors?
Thou shalt not muzzle the mouth of the ox that treadeth out the corn.
Oh Yeah. I forgot... |
Because up till now nobody knew what he was making (125k) while his church was losing 4k a month and many of his people are striving just to make ends meet. No one says that the ox should be muzzled, but you don't have to give him the entire grainery.
Two or three people determine his salary, not the church or even the whole board.
I don't think that a CEO of a 'corporation' that continually loses money would continue to make his executive salary, especially if he didn't do a darn thing to turn things around, but instead blamed everyone else!
In Darkness - November 22, 2007 12:32 AM (GMT)
Good point Dan who could stay in business without a profit and they want to run the church as a business.
hodeuon - November 22, 2007 04:59 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Out Haus Preachah @ Nov 21 2007, 06:54 PM) |
| We know he is not a Doctor. Heck! How did he get a masters degree when the bachelors degree he has was not from a regionally accredited school? |
Graduate programs do not necessarily require that the undergraduate have been done at a regionally accredited school. Literally, not even Harvard requires this in all cases. In many cases, professional accreditation is acceptable.
Even if the undergraduate school was unaccredited, a seminary might be willing to admit on basis of a placement exam. If the two schools come from a common theological tradition or have an especially close relationship, a student might even be able to test out of survey-level graduate courses.
Hodeuon
something to think about - November 22, 2007 07:23 AM (GMT)
wow, you miss a few days and you miss so much. Janebob, there are only 2 pastor's wives with young girls. Only one of them drops her kid off everywhere so someone else can watch her. It isn't hard to know who you are, or maybe you are the other one, either way, I am so ashamed of you and your comments. Ashamed! Take a look at your own life, or the lives of your family members. Are they perfect? Nothing for anyone to question? That is not the point, but you are making it the point. Let he who has not sinned throw the first stone.
Astounded, you are pretty obvious too. What a heart. You need a touch from the HEALER, you will find him in the Bible.
Not the reason I came to post. I was reading in the book of Galatians today. Let's start at 6:1..." Bretheren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted. Bear one another's burdens, and thereby fulfill the law of Christ. For if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he decieves himself." (Look it up, keep reading, it is so good!)
What I don't see in this verse, if anyone is caught in any trespass, tell the young men in your church, so they will know to avoid him. Tell the other pastor's cause they need to know. Make fun of him from the pulpit. Give him the cold shoulder treatment. Post it on the internet. NO!!! You who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness (not pride, contempt, ignoring, ... have I ever seen the spirit of gentleness from the pulpit? maybe once or twice....)
Now some will say this should be done for Pastor, well it has been. Over and over again, I know of so many who have gone to pastor, and tried to restore him, but his pride kept him from receiving or changing. PRIDE! Now it is too late it seems.
For if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself.
See we all are "nothing", but the problem is when pride comes in and makes us feel we are really "something".
We all need to assess our hearts today. Jesus, show us where pride has snuck in, or barrelled it's way through into our lives. Restore in us a spirit of gentleness, and humility.
It is hard to love the unlovely, but that is what we are called to do. So, Janebob, Astounded, I will choose to love you anyway.
(It is a little harder to find any love for you LGM for LIfe, I just feel sick and sorry for you),... but I will ask God for some extra for you too.
Something to Think about
LGM FOR LIFE - November 22, 2007 08:42 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (something to think about @ Nov 22 2007, 02:23 AM) |
(It is a little harder to find any love for you LGM for LIfe, I just feel sick and sorry for you),... but I will ask God for some extra for you too. Something to Think about |
I never asked for it.
So I dont need your love.
FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Awesome pie auction.
Didnt even miss the departed for one minute.
Even raised a great deal of money.
FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sierra - November 22, 2007 01:49 PM (GMT)
Something to Think About, you gave me a lot to think about. But also I think about when Jesus rebuked Peter and said, "Satan, get behind me." But let's put into practice what you talked about:
LGM for Life, I'm sure that you have some legitimate points, but your posts are so childish that it negates any credibility that you might have. Surely TP isn't aware that you are posting here. So you don't really represent LGM, do you? You are acting independently of the church that you say you love so much. If you are so loyal to TP, why would you go against his orders? Because when people want to hate and they are jealous and insecure, they can't help themselves and they go against logic. You can find statements like this in many ABD classes about why Lucifer was jealous and enraged. Don't be a vessel for evil. You were made in the image of God. Be with your loved ones during this Thanksgiving and Christmas season and appreciate all that God has given you. They need your time. Don't waste it here. It's not fruitful for your life. Please let God love you in areas of your life that hurt where you haven't let Him in yet. If you are so happy with your church, then thank God for it and serve them with joy. If you do that, you'll soon forget all about us and be occupied with Christ who's coming soon.
You know very well that you need our love because we are all a part of the Body of Christ. God made us to need one another. You know better than to say you didn't ask for our love. It's not something that you ask for. Sometimes hate is love that was hurt and decayed. We are sorry that we hurt you and changed the world you knew. We are sorry that things aren't like the way they were before. We aren't getting any joy out of this either. Growing up is hard to do...for all of us.
Out Haus Preachah - November 22, 2007 03:01 PM (GMT)
There definitely is a certain amount of
irony that some kid would call himself
LGM FOR LIFE.
I'm sure that there are some fans of the
Edsel out there too...